Monday, August 16, 2010

By Faith Jennifer....

I've studied Hebrews 11 in several of my bible studies. Beth Moore refers to this chapter as the "Faith Hall of Fame."
Verse 8 always stands out to me the most: "By faith Abraham, when called to go to a place he would later receive as his inheritance, obeyed and went, even though he did not know where he was going."
In my bible, next to this verse (dated May 4-2010) I have written "Our future adoption, going to Ethiopia. We have to trust God and follow Him even if we can't see His full plan."
Like Abraham, we must have faith, we must trust - that all the details will be worked out in God's perfect way.
In the Beth Moore study, she encouraged us to write the following at the end of Hebrews 11. We were to add a verse 41, which said: "By faith Jennifer...."
I've been thinking about what I would want to be said about me if my name appeared in the "Faith Hall of Fame." I think I would like to read something like this....
"By faith Jennifer, when called to adopt a child, faithfully followed God, as He led her to Ethiopia, trusting that He would provide the finances and take care of all the details because she knew in her heart that this was what He was calling her to do. She stepped out in faith, not based on what others thought, but in obedience to God."
I want to share with you something I read the other day in my bible study by Kelly Minter.
"It's all been about faith. Because we trusted Him, He gave us the grace to walk through it even when we thought we weren't going to make it. Not only did He reveal His miracles first hand to increase our faith, but the people surrounding us also got to see that each blessing was coming from God alone."
I pray that other's will see God's mighty hand in the details of our adoption. John and I both know so many people who need to experience God's love and His amazing miracles. May we be obedient, so that He can do the miraculous!

"Now faith is being sure of what we hope for and certain of what we do not see." ~Hebrews 11:1

Thursday, August 12, 2010

I'm One Proud Sister...

Today's post has nothing to do with adoption. Today, I want to take a moment to brag about my sister. She is graduating from nursing school tonight, and to say that I am proud of her is an understatement.

I know I am going to cry tonight! (I am crying right now as I write this) I think my sister is probably one of the strongest people I know. This year she has had to walk down a hard road...she has had to to make heartbreaking decisions. At times, it probably would have been easier to throw her hands up and quite - just crawl in a hole and sulk. But not Myka. She has handled each challenge and each heartbreak with such amazing grace. Nothing was going to stop her from accomplishing her dreams of being a nurse - not the student adviser who told her she would never make it in nursing school because she was married and worked too much, not the heartbreak she has faced this year, not the early, early mornings and long drives to school and clinicals each day, not the many many hours of studying, not that stupid racoon who decided to jump in front of her slug bug on her way to class!

Over the past year, I have spent so many hours praying for my sister, my heart has broken for her and with hers. I have wished so many times that I could take away the pain that she has faced. I have prayed for her as she has taken all those tests and rejoiced with her when she passed them all.

This year has been tough and challenging, but my sister didn't just survive it, she has kicked major butt!

I love the person that she has become over the past year....God has molded and shaped her into an amazing, strong woman. He has used this season of her life to built her character. She has persevered! I know that God has amazing things in store for her! I am so darn proud!

I know I will probably cry my eyes out tonight! It's going to be a HUGE celebration! We will rejoice with and celebrate Myka and all that she has overcome and all that she has become.



Tuesday, August 10, 2010

Birdies for Babies Golf Tournament....


We will be partnering with Able Ministries to host our first "Big" adoption fundraising event on October 23rd.
The Birdies for Babies Golf Tournament will be held from 8 a.m. to noon, Saturday, October 23rd at Earlywine Golf Course, 11600 South Portland Ave., in Oklahoma City.
Registration is $80 for an individual player or $300 for a 4-person team. (cost includes lunch).
Please join us as we hit the links to raise money to bring home our "Missing Linck" We are very excited about partnering with Able Ministries for this event. Able Ministries provides support and encouragement for married couples who are struggling with the pain of fertility challenges, including infertility and pregnancy loss.
For more information about the golf tournament, you can contact
or e-mail Jennifer at jmishon@gmail.com
To find out more about Able Ministries, you can visit http://www.facebook.com/#!/pages/Able-Ministries/115744615109542


Monday, August 9, 2010

$28,000 Is A Tad Bit Overwhelming....

"Don't be afraid, just believe!" ~Mark 5:36

I have been completely overwhelmed today - about coming up with $28,000 for our adoption and finding 60 people to play in the golf tournament that John is planning for October 23. (More details on the golf tournament to come!)
I have been on my knees, in tears before God today! I found the above verse during my prayer time and it is very fitting for the current obstacles I face. I have no reason to be afraid or anxious, because God really does have all these details in the palm of His hands. I just pray that no matter how hard this journey gets, that I will never take my eyes off of Jesus, that I will never doubt His perfect plan or miss out on all that He wants to teach me along the way.

"But blessed is the man who trusts in the Lord, whose confidence is in Him. He will be like a tree planted by water that sends out its roots by the stream. It does not fear when heat comes, its leaves are always green. It has no worries in a year of drought and never fails to bear fruit."
~ Jeremiah 17:7-8

During my prayer time I was talking to God about why I feel overwhelmed. I told Him that one reason is because John and I don't have the support from certain people who we thought we would have support from. The people we thought would have been there for us as we face the challenges of raising $28,000 haven't been there. As I was talking to God about this, He quickly spoke to my heart. He doesn't want John and I to depend on these people. He wants us to CLING to Him - to depend only on Him for wisdom, discernment, the resources we need for the adoption, etc. This quickly came to my mind: people will let you down, God will not!
I was also telling God how there would be absolutely no way that I could be walking through this season of my life without Him. I can get up each morning and face the challenges, only because of my Saviour Jesus Christ.
I am not consumed with doubt, fear or worry - ONLY because I have Jesus! God is bigger than the $28,000 we need for this adoption. God is bigger than my poly cystic ovarian syndrome. God is BIGGER!

"Because of God's great love we are not consumed, for his compassion's never fail. They are new every morning; great is your faithfulness. I say to myself "The Lord is my portion; therefore I will wait for Him. The Lord is good to those whose hope is in him, to the one who seeks him."
~ Lamentations 3:22-25

Wednesday, August 4, 2010

God's Provision - A Lesson From Abraham....

I just love how God works! When He gives you just what you need at the exact moment you need it. Here are a few of my God moments from this week: a card from a friend, 49 dozen cookies sold for our adoption fund, the perfect lesson on God's provision, the courage (and the right words) for a tough conversation and lunch with a new friend.
Last night during my quiet time, I was so excited about what God showed me (and I still am!).
I was reading the story about Abraham and how he was willing to sacrifice his only son Issac when God asked him to (Genesis 22:1-18).
Hebrews 11:17-19 says " By faith Abraham, when God tested him, offered Isaac as a sacrifice. He who had received the promises was about to sacrifice his one and only son, even though God had said to him, 'It is through Issac that your offspring will be reckoned.' Abraham reasoned that God could raise the dead and figuratively speaking, he did receive Issac back from death."
Even though Abraham knew God hadn't fulfilled His plan for Issac, he trusted God and was obedient when He asked him to sacrifice his son.
Genesis 22:5 says "He (Abraham) said to his servants, 'Stay here with the donkey while I and the boy go over there. We will worship and then we will come back to you." Genesis 22:8 says that Abraham told Issac "God will himself provide the lamb for the burnt offering my son."
And guess what??? God did! He provided a ram to be used in the sacrifice.
Abraham KNEW that God would provide! Although Abraham thought God would just raise Issac from the dead, he trusted that God had the perfect plan.
Here's what the author of my Bible study had to say:
"Isn't it interesting that Abraham was wrong about the process but right in concept? He was wrong about the details but right about the fact that God would provide. God honored his faith, never giving thought to Abraham's superfluous errors of how it would happen...Abraham believed God to be a God of provision." ~Kelly Minter
Do you see why I got so excited about this lesson?? John and I are walking a road similar to Abraham - we know that God has called us to adopt from Ethiopia. We thought most of the funding was available and now it's not. But God will still provide! God's provision for the adoption isn't happening like we initially thought it would but it's going to! God will honor our faithfulness and obedience. We must pray for the faith of Abraham.
Whew! I am tired just typing this! It PUMPS me up! God is Jehovah-Jireh - "The Lord Will Provide." He provided this lesson just when I needed it and He will continue to provide at each step of this journey.
I pray that today, you will see God's awesome provision in your life!

Tuesday, August 3, 2010

Facing Criticism....

As Christians, we have a choice. We can worry about what people think and follow the world's standards, or we can choose to please God.
When John and I realized God was calling us to adopt, we knew we'd face some criticism. Some people wondered why we were giving up on having biological children and others just couldn't wrap their mind around the idea of adoption a child, especially a child of another race.
The following is an exert from my journal dated February 18, 2010:

"The other day I was thinking about how I will react to people's comments and questions if we adopt from Ethiopia (regarding race). I am by no means racist, but there are cruel people in the world and we could face a lot of criticism having a "black" baby. Then I read this quote and God washed away my worries. I just cried.
"The color of love is always the same in the eyes of a child." ~Unknown
Then God brought to my mind this song from childhood: "Jesus loves the little children. All the children of the world. Red and yellow, black and white. They are precious in His sight. Jesus loves the little children of the world."

My prayer is that no matter what criticism John and I face, we will strive to please God and not man. That we will keep our eyes fixed on Jesus, "the author and perfecter of our faith." (Hebrews 12:2)

"Am I now trying to win the approval of men, or of God? Or am I trying to please men? If I were still trying to please men, I would not be a servant of Christ." ~Galatians 1:10

Monday, August 2, 2010

35 Dozen Cookies and Counting....

We have sold 35 Dozen cookies in just 3 days! If that's not a "God Thing," I don't know what is! Tonight I was up to my eyeballs in cookie dough, but with each cookie sold, we are one step closer to turning in our adoption application. I want to say a big THANK YOU to everyone who has ordered cookies and to those who have been spreading the word about the cookie sales...Aunt Myka (that is what our baby will call you!) and my wonderful cousin Mylissa. You guys are awesome cookie sellers! I love ya'll so much for doing this for John and I and our "Missing Linck" I can't wait for the day you get to meet that sweet baby! Well I thought I better post a photo of what the cookies look like.....the first 6 dozen didn't turn out too bad!!!

Last night I was doing my Bible study and I was reading the story of when God called Abraham to sacrifice his son Isaac. I came across this verse in Genesis 22:14 and John and I have been living proof of this promise from God over the past few days.
"The Lord Will provide..."
My Bible study went on to say that provision is part of God's nature and God brought huge blessings to Abraham as a result of his obedience. I know that as long as John and I continue to be obedient to God's calling, He will bless this adoption endeavor....
The Bible study ended with a great quote by A.W. Tozer:
"Everything is safe which we commit to Him, and nothing is really safe which is not so committed."